Why Me?

Questions women & couples who suffered & survived through a miscarriage or struggle with infertility ask...

Why?!

What did I do wrong?

Was it my fault?

Could I have done something different?

What if I hadn't done "this" or "that"?

Why is it so hard for us?

Why did this happen?

Why us?!

Why me?!

WHY?!!!

I don't know why, I don't have the answers.

Sometimes, the best thing we can do for ourselves is to let go of needing to know "why".

So what I have done is work on…

Understanding that there are things that I will NEVER understand.

That mindset has allowed me to release the questions that I will never get answers to

so I can remove some of the load that weighs me down,

so I can make it just a little easier to carry on...

because personally, I still want to make the most of the life I have left to live.

We are the narrators of our story.

Our perspective will dictate the quality of the life we live.

It will take TIME & all these questions are NORMAL to have. You are NOT alone in feeling this way, but please know that, peace can be found, even after pain.

But we must allow ourselves to release that which holds us down.

Sending prayers of love, peace, and healing for all who need it.