No Secrets = No Stress

We landed in Florida on Monday This is our last trip before we start trying again.

It's not easy to share that because society makes us feel like these matters should be "private" but I don't want to go back to feeling isolated & alone.

AND regardless of what happens, I don't want to PRETEND.

Being open on here (or about trying) isn't for everyone, but for me, it's become therapeutic.

It's given me a place to be honest about my feelings & in doing so I've created connections with soo many women that help me feel supported & understood.

Also, I have PTSD & anxieties to work through (from my 3 losses) so the last thing I need is the stress of keeping secrets.

Plus I've been so open about my journey that at this point I don't really have anything to hide but I know it's different for everyone...

All I am saying is that I think it’s important to not shame women who share and make it safe for them to seek support.